Walking Barefoot in Snow

I specifically post this picture on my dating profile because it's an indication that i like to ride.   Every man i've ever ridden with has been respectful, intelligent, driven and yes, pretty damn badass.   Every man i've ridden with. I've been offered many rides i haven't taken. Case in point.  The last guy, supposedly the President of some club i searched for and could not find ANY record of anywhere, not even a mention......he wanted to take me out for lunch, and a long ride. Okay. So I say, lets meet and have drink somewhere.  Not a date, a meet.  Lets lay eyes on each other and see if there's any interest, any connection.  I'm not dating your bike.   He agrees, seems happy about it and then immediately before we are supposed to go he backs out.  Says he wants to come pick me up the next day and spend the day together. um.....no. I say, hey, it's cool.  We can meet somewhere Saturday and........have a drink.  not a da...

I am not the woman who entertains you while you look for someone better. I am not the woman who cares for you while you look for someone better. I do not give you the affection and attention that only someone in an actual relationship with me gets while you look for someone better I do not short change myself by wasting a moment on you once I find out that you are still searching for someone after having been intimate with me. I am soft, chunky, giggly, smiley, sexy, smart, loyal, sentimental, resourceful, loving, demonstrative and worth it....but I am not the one.