this morning i had a dream that involved my ex husband, and my best friend. I can't remember what his role was in the dream, but i was at her house using her bathroom and i realized i had gotten blood all over her toilet seat. I was cleaning it off and asked her for clorox wipes. Okay, thats not strange AT ALL. Sitting here this morning, working remotely, i look down at a note i had written on scrap paper. it says "What are you going to do about it? Thats what i thought." Well, we know what i did about it. I booted him. I think i wrote that down as i was sitting here at my desk, and he said something i said i didn't like. That was his response. I think i wrote it down so i wouldn't conveniently forget about it. It was a shot to the system.......are you threatening me mother fucker? What am i gonna do about it. LOLOLOLOLOL Byeeeeee. There was a time when i let that kind of comment slide. That time has passed....
Back on FB dating - because where else will i meet someone? HOWEVER, taking a new approach. I'm saying "yes" to most matches, as long as they have an articulate profile and have put in a bit of effort. THEN i look at the pictures and i have a little grace, because men, the kind i like, generally don't take great photos of themselves. It's usually in a car, with the angle up their nose. So i'm not passing judgement on that. Also, talking to everyone and giving them the same effort they give me. Not carrying the conversation. Once they reach out to me, because i will not reach out first (nothing wrong with it, just not my style) the conversation better flow, or i'm deleting them. It's okay to take it off the dating site and text. It's even better if they get motivated to actually call me. But i'll never say that out loud. No more leading, directing, or managing how someone treats me. No getting invested in a con...