Thursday, February 28, 2019

Too, too....too


My problem is my inability to ignore double standards. 

Or inconsistencies.

Call me pragmatic.

Or surly.

It doesn’t matter what label is placed on it, the fact remains that I am unable to NOT address unrealistic expectations, or standards that are not held up for all involved to meet.

This feeling applies to the workplace, religious organizations, private memberships to clubs or groups, and on a much more intimate level, personal relationships.

Everyone should be meeting on a level playing field, where the rules apply to all.  Rules change, and when they do…………they should apply to all. 

Rules to me being a standard of behavior.

“you are not going to win this battle by fighting it”……….TED Sincerely X podcast, episode 7: mood changer – I highly recommend listening to this episode if you currently or have ever struggled with Depression, which I have and sometimes still do if not dealt with.

Sometimes I think my depression is a reaction to the loss of control I feel, or the feeling of being ineffective in playing “the” game……….i’m too basic in my ideology, too blunt in my speech, too, too, too.

Is it me that needs to change and adapt?  Haven’t I always?  And how’s that worked out for you MB? 

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