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Meditations book 5 #24

 Remember:

Matter. How tiny your share of it.

Time. How brief and fleeting your allotment of it.

Fate. How small a role you play in it.



Well now.  If this isn't timely I'm not sure what is.

What matters a lot to me matters little to others, and vice versa.  We are all part of a much bigger picture and THAT should matter but when it comes down to individuals, we are temporary and not around very long.

Time seems to go on forever until you start nearing the end of it.  Then, you realize how little time is actually left and that is if you are lucky. So don't wait until the end of your life to start enjoying it.  Don't spend it being miserable because when you look back as you lay on your deathbed you want it flash on all the fun you had, the love you shared and the good you did.

Fate- not sure I believe in this at all.  We make our own fate by the decisions and choices we make and don't make.  Its the same story for everyone, it's the choices that differ.  I do think upbringing, trauma, and disfunction try to lead in our choices (it's what we know) but I don't feel we can't change that.


Because I have realized that I think about a lot more than I actually write about (which always seems to be about men) I've decided to randomly select from Marcus Aurelius's "Medications" once in a while.  Writing is focusing and there is so much more to focus on than myself.


Today a very special girl has a birthday and as she grows up I grow old.  Life.  

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